25.9.09

How To Improve Your Friendship.

I have seen hardship, i have tasted leadership but i think i like frienship. One of the reasons why so many marriages and relationships break up is because they lack that essential bond and sense of "frienship".

Every improvement starts from somewhere and it's started by someone.The best way to change a person is to first of all change your attitude towards that person. Most people want to change the world by making it a better place to live in but they fail to realize that they ought to change themselves first.

As you read you will discover the A-Z of true and loving friendship. Pause! ask yourself this question, who is truly a "friend"? I have asked this question a lot of times and for every three persons i ask i usually get about five contrasting answers.These are some of the virtues of true "friendship"

#1 Always show honesty,an honest answer is the sign of true friendship.

#2 Be there for them in their time of need. Some friendships do not last, but some friends are more loyal than brothers.

#3 Cheer them up and be close to them, Cherish your friends, keep faith in them.

#4 Don't focus on there faults,

#5 encourage them, a friend strengthens you with prayers, blesses you with love and encourages you with hope

#6 forgive them without nursing grudges

#7 get together,a real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out

#8 have confidence in them,a friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in yourself

#9 Include them in your prayer

#10 Just listen to them even if you don't have a solution to their problem

#11 Know your friend and his dreams a "friend" is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway

#12 Love them, a friend loveth at all times

#13 Make them feel special

#14 Never forget them

#15 Offer to help them
#16 Praise them when they do well

#17 Quickly disagree when necessary,

#18 Respect them

#19 Say sorry when you offend them

#20 Think of them

#21 Upgrade them. The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own

#22 Value them, faithful friends are beyond price: No amount can balance their worth, a faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; he who finds one finds a treasure

#23 Wish them well

#24 Xray yourself before you judge or corrct them

#25 Your words count

#26 Zip your mouth to the secrets they tell you.

True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost. One of the finest ways to impact and win someone is to improve your attitude towards that person. Apply these principles and you will be amazed at the outcome.

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